Imagine HOLDING THE BRIDESMAID DRESSES HOSTAGE.

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So now that my beautiful wedding is over and my honeymoon is behind me I can share this story. My fiancé has a friend who he wanted to invite to the wedding but I did not. She’s a hot mess express but we had some extra room and I didn’t want to be a bridezilla so whatever. She was invited. Let’s call her W. Cut to the wedding day. We’re getting ready and guests start to arrive. My fiancé goes to greet people before the ceremony and I stay hidden for my big reveal down the aisle. He comes back up to our room where I’m getting ready and says W is wasted. Then my wedding planner comes up and asks who she is and says they cannot serve W. The ceremony hasn’t even started!! Ceremony goes off without a hitch and we go greet all our guests as husband and wife and there is W. She’s more than drunk. Like on drugs (I think molly or something along those lines). She’s beyond this earthly realm. When I go to say hello to her she’s already broken some glassware. Later in the evening she is grinding on my husband (who quickly removes himself. I didn’t even know till after) and then as the grand finale she motorboats my breasts!! She puts her face into my chest and blows. I was wearing a V neck dress so it was skin to skin contact. Someone pulled her away and drove her home safely. W says it was the best night of her life.

Getting married in a couple of days and we opted to have a relatively small wedding, considering the culture we’re from (about 80 guests). We set up a password-protected wedding website for guests to view details, RSVP, etc and communicated to guests that it is small wedding, strictly invite-only.

However, one of my parents’ guests has taken it upon themselves to send the wedding website and password to their (adult) children who aren’t on the guest list a couple of days to the wedding and I keep getting email notifications of them attempting to RSVP. I’ve met them maybe once a few years ago and don’t even remember what any of them look like, what their names are, etc so find it really shocking that they would still try and RSVP to a wedding they weren’t personally invited to.

We’re already at capacity and even if we weren’t, it’s not okay to RSVP to a stranger’s wedding!!!

Now I have to deal with emailing them to say sorry you can’t come 🥴