“To me marriage seems like too much of a risk for men these days.”

"If you live like that and expect the other to keep up with you, it probably won’t end well. Don’t get married too young. I don’t think it’s an age thing necessarily but make sure you know who you are and that you know what you want out of life and a partner. Make sure your partner does too. Many don’t have themselves figured out yet when they are too young and they end up changing too much during the marriage and become incompatible."

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